Here, I explore history, mythology, and the deeper forces shaping our world — and how men and families can prepare for, and adapt to, these times of great change.
Deeper and quieter
About eighteen months ago I sent this list an email called The Noble's Path is Closing Its Doors. A few of you asked what happened next, and I owe you the answer.
It didn't end. It stopped being public. What we'd built needed depth more than it needed reach, so it went quieter: a small number of men, meeting in small groups, working through a long ladder of challenges one at a time, each one taken seriously enough to change how a man actually lives. Slower than anything I could sell, and better than anything I did. If you came to me for coaching in the early years, this is where that road led.
I'm not opening doors today. When they open, it will be to a few men at a time, and I'll ask more of them than a membership fee. What I want to know now is simpler. If that's a room you'd want to be told about, reply with one line and I'll put your name down. If it isn't, nothing changes, and the business letters will keep coming at their own pace.
Either way, thank you for reading this far. Nine months of silence is a long time to hold a seat for someone.
David
David Schofield · Purpose In Action
Purpose In Action Coaching & Consulting
Here, I explore history, mythology, and the deeper forces shaping our world — and how men and families can prepare for, and adapt to, these times of great change.
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